I'm dating a rapist... Should I pursue this relationship??!! Serious Answers, please!?

The girl he was with was 14.. he was 17.. and it was not . Statutory like you said is non-forcible. He did not force the girl into anything and it was only a 3 year age difference. He was open and honest with you about the situation.. I'd say it sounds good to go so far! The question is are YOU willing to tough out the bad times with him... like you said that record will haunt him for the rest of his life! Jobs, relationships (friends as well as girlfriends), family, every aspect of his life will be affected by this. Can you deal with that? If you can't see yourself holding a future with him then don't waste his or your time. Most importantly.. be friends before it goes to the next level. It's always good to get to know someone as well as you possibly can before starting a relationship. Especially in a situation like this where the person has a criminal record. Good luck and be careful!